I don’t know why not..I ask my girls to do it all the time!
Princess, you’re the oldest, I need you to set a good example, please.
Drama Queen, you need to set a good example for your little brother.
If you complain about doing school (or chores), your brother/sister is going to start complaining too.
If you want your siblings to stop yelling at you, you need to set a good example and stop yelling at them.
Set a good example! Lead by example!
When my son was two we showed his eight year old sister that if she refused to eat something on her dinner plate and called it yucky, within minutes the two year old would be refusing to eat whatever item she’d rejected. If, on the other hand, she declared some questionable food to be “delicious!” and ate a bite (even if it seemed forced and over-acted to us parents) her brother would start chowing down on it.
Isn’t it amazing the affect brothers and sisters can have on each other? And even moreso us parents. One of the things I’ve learned (because parents learn too) is that things go better around here when I’m setting a good example. HUH. IMAGINE THAT.
That means being patient and kind, not raising my voice, not being short-tempered, using my manners. It means not acting like school is a chore, and not acting like chores are evil. Attitude is contagious and children learn by example (as we’ve already discussed.) So if I want my children to love learning, then it goes without saying that I need to love learning and love teaching them, too. Because if I act like I can’t wait to get it over with then guess how my kids are going to feel?
I wanted to write this post about the love of learning, but I couldn’t because we’re not really there yet. My kids have moments they love and favorite subjects. At the beginning of the school year we were doing really well with fun projects and crafts to connect with the material we’d covered. By the end of the school year, I’d let things become drab and “let’s just get this done” was my motto.
Well let me just say: THAT STINKS.
That is not the kind of teacher I want to be. That is not the kind of school day I want to have.
I really want my children to love to learn, to be curious, to not want to stop at “just good enough” or just barely done.” I want their brains to be insatiable! So I have to give them that, I have to live it first.
- I need to be curious, learning, loving it!
- I need to be ready to get a job done, and do it well.
- I need to answer their questions and not shoo them away because I’m busy!
- I need to let loose on the control strings a bit and let them experiment and get creative just because they’re curious.
“What is worth beginning is worth finishing, and what is worth doing is worth doing well.” (Vol. 4, pt. II, p. 172)
This sums up the attitude that I want to have toward homeschooling. That kind of attitude is something I really want for my children. And I want them to set that kind of example for others. There’s just one catch…
I have to set that example first.
This post is a part of the ABCs of Homeschooling series hosted by Dawn @ 5 Kids and a Dog. You can view my previous posts here:
- All Year
- E & F ~ “Everyone Together” and “Flexibility”
- Housework & Homework