Recently I told you that I tested Princess for learning style and discovered that she is a visual and artistic learner. I already knew this – but I hadn’t taken that into consideration with her schooling. And it occurred to me: maybe I should.

So how have things changed since then?

Her biggest area of struggle had been math. She hasn’t been very strong in it, from the very beginning. Initially she had trouble making the abstracts of math concrete – which we implemented with the use of manipulatives.

Now she can add and subtract, but she isn’t fast at it and she second-guesses herself a lot. We hit a point mid-year where I wasn’t sure she really had it, and I was hesitant to move on. We began only doing addition drill sheets each day. My thought was that with repetition she would get better and faster.

But things only got worse.

She got slower and slower and started asking more questions that she should have known the answers to. Then she started daydreaming and doodling and asking me unrelated questions about science and other things.

Finally it dawned on me that she probably did KNOW it, she just wasn’t DOING it, but rather she was fighting it instead. I tested her verbally with a couple of math problems, I found a couple of math games for her to play online, I observed a little more closely and then the light bulb came on: “She does know it. She just doesn’t want to do those sheets.”

It was that revelation that led me to test her learning style. And a few other revelations.

  1. She may be able to do math well, but she might not ever be exceptionally fast at it or enjoy it all that much.
  2. And that’s okay.

Still, I do want to work with her and not against her.

After a bit of brain-storming and consulting with other moms, here’s what the last couple months have looked like for us:

  • We’ve used more word problems. I’m not sure why she does better with word problems, but I think it helps her visualize what is going on.
  • Throughout the normal workings of the day, I ask verbal math problems related to what we’re working on or what we need to calculate.
  • I started giving her shorter worksheets to prevent her from burning out and fighting it.
  • I found more math games online for additional work on top of the worksheets.
  • We looks for ways to make games out of it. We’ve finally begun working on multiplication (after getting bogged down in drill sheets for a few months – good thing we’re not technically done with second grade for two more months) and we’ll probably make a Memory-like game where you match the equations and the sums

Making a few changes has made a big change in our school day.

There’s a lot less whining and fighting. And there’s a lot more learning going on, too. Which is always a good thing since that’s the point of school, right?

One of the good things about her taking the assessment test is that we’ll see what areas she still needs more work in over the rest of the summer. We’ll take those results, come up with some fun ways to work on those areas and get busy with the visual learning.

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Hey, y’all! I’m Amber and I wear many hats. I drink a ton of coffee and I’m constantly sweeping crumbs off the floor. After 18 years of homeschooling, I’m getting close to graduating my third child and now we are starting over at preschool with our fourth, Lil Miss Mouse. She keeps us young and she’s the main reason for my excessive coffee consumption. Drink up!